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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce today's guests.
- "Yes"! - That's right.
The musician, Lee Hyun Woo!
(The musician with unfading talent, Lee Hyun Woo)
- Jang Young Ran! - Hello.
- Raina! - Yes!
- San E! - San E!
I have to tell you what happened in the waiting room.
Tae Gyun came to me and said, "Dong Yeob, say hello."
"This is my older sister's daughter."
"She's visiting from the States."
She came all the way here to see Hyun Woo.
I was talking to her and realised that something was weird.
"He's old and married. "
She said, "Pardon me? He's not married."
Then she started arguing with Tae Gyun.
She thought it was the actor, Lee Hyun Woo.
My goodness.
So she found out that he's not the actor...
and just went home.
Oh, no!
"You should still stay and watch the show."
"No, I'm going home!"
(I'm going home!)
Young people these days don't know that Hyun Woo is a musician.
They'd go, "Oh, he's that food connoisseur."
(Hyun Woo is a food connoisseur.)
Don't many people around you think that?
I think that many people are unsure.
"What does he do?"
"He looks like a DJ, but is he a gourmet?"
- Right. - A gourmet?
You also released a new song, right?
Yes. One of my mottoes in life is...
"Postpone what you can for as much as possible."
Is that your motto?
Because of that, I delayed releasing songs...
for a long time, from an entire season to a couple of years.
- That made my agent antsy. - I see.
- He has to make a living, too. - He booked the recording studio...
and scheduled all the shows, too.
- Really? - So I was sort of forced to do it.
Shall we listen to what his agent has worked so hard for?
(We'd love to hear your song.)
("Road Trip" by Lee Hyun Woo)
(His voice is still as sweet as ever.)
(That was lovely.)
San E and Raina, you two collaborate often.
Has it been two years?
Yes, we last collaborated two years ago.
- The title means the sugary snack. - Yes, the thing made with sugar.
"A Midsummer Night's Sweetness" from two years ago is about flirting.
- It makes your heart flutter. - That's what the song is about.
The song is about loving each other.
- It's about falling in love. - Yes.
You two blush when you talk about these things.
People start being attached to each other when they spend time together.
Do you ever think about dating Raina?
Do you ever think about that?
I have imagined it from time to time.
- I'd be lying if I say no. - Really?
- When? - So you've imagined dating her.
- She's surprised. - I don't think she has.
People imagine many things.
- That's right. - Yes.
- What's wrong with it? - Did you imagine it, too?
As you know, dating is all about timing.
When the relationship is set in stone as friendship,
- it gets hard. - Right.
There are those people around me who say...
that they're not interested at all and play pranks on girls.
But inside, their hearts beat so fast.
They act silly, but their hearts are skipping beats inside.
We're glad that everyone thinks we look cute together.
Let's hear the song.
- Let's hear it. - Yes.
(We'd love to hear your new song.)
("Sugar and Me" by San E and Raina)
(Their voices form a sweet harmony.)
(This is cool.)
(They look like a real couple.)
(It's a happy romance of this summer.)
- Thank you. - Thank you.
That was awesome.
All of you are here on Hello today.
Are there any specific areas that you can give good advices on?
- Can you tell us? - I think...
that I've become very optimistic.
I stopped questioning "How can that happen?"
Now I think, "It can happen."
- It makes me feel more at ease. - "It can happen."
You'll find out soon enough, but it'll be hard...
- to think that way on this show. - That's right.
You'll think, "That can't be."
- It'll be easier to think that. - What about you, Young Ran?
I empathise with people easily.
- I see. - I get too emotional sometimes.
I'd still be so angry when my friend is okay. "Wait, don't hang up yet."
"Hey, wait." I get headaches because I get too immersed...
and even have to take painkillers at times.
Even now, you sound very emotional.
- I know. - What about you, Raina?
I tell people what's right and what's wrong.
Even if it's my friend, I say, "That's your fault."
You point out what's wrong.
- How about you, San E? - I'm like Hyun Woo.
- Are you also optimistic? - I like positivity.
I don't think that being negative can propel you forward.
I think that I'm quite good at being optimistic and giving...
good advices when I listen to someone's worries.
Last week, "Change My Husband" won for the second time in a row.
Has your husband changed at all?
Yes. Our family went out for a meal together...
after months of not doing anything like that.
Also, I went out with him once this week.
I went with him when he went out to drink with friends.
Our baby was bored,
so he went to a convenience store to buy snacks...
- He has to do it, of course. - He tagged you two along.
It's still a miracle, though.
We'll see if this story can win again today.
What does the winner get?
We will give the winner a 1,000 dollars gift certificate.
All right. Show us the keywords please.
"A Man Who Endures".
- "My Mum Hates Me". - "Tofu, Biji and Jjigae"?
- I'll introduce this story later. - Jjigae is hard to eat in summer.
- "Tofu, Biji and Jjigae". - You cannot eat it.
- Really? - You can't eat it.
- This is "My Mum Hates Me". - "My Mum Hates Me".
Hello. I'm a mum to a 6-year-old and I got married 7 years ago.
Most women say that they love visiting their parents' home.
For me, my parents' home is the most uncomfortable place in the world.
- "Mum, I'm here." - "Goodness, why are you here?"
Seriously?
"Every time I see you, you look like you've put on more weight."
"I told you to never set foot in here unless you lose weight."
- "I'm embarrassed of you!" - My goodness.
My mum starts nagging me the time I arrive.
"Do you really have to eat rice when your body looks like that?"
"Gosh, you don't need that."
"Eat this instead!"
It was the first time I was visiting my parents in six months,
but my mum just gave me a cup of grain smoothie.
"Every time I see you eating, I get so frustrated."
"That's why I didn't cook any food today."
"Be thankful I'm giving you that at least."
- Gosh. - I admit that I'm pretty large,
but I got married and gave birth, too.
My weight is not a problem for me, but my mum doesn't think that way.
"Mum, I think I'm coming down with something. I feel weak."
"It's because you're fat!"
"You'll be fine if you lose weight. Lose weight now!"
"Mum, I had a fight with my husband today."
- "I'm upset." - "It's because you're fat!"
- "That's why you fought." - She blames everything on it.
With my mum, everything comes down to my weight.
I'm so sick and tired of her telling me to lose weight.
"Mum, please stop it." That's how she ended the story.
(Stop telling me to lose weight.)
From her perspective,
hearing all those nagging would just bring down her self esteem.
- Definitely. - I don't think it'll help at all.
- Let's talk to her in person. - Let's do that.
- Please come out. - Yes.
(Who is the woman that is sick of her mum's nagging?)
I think she looks cute.
(Shim Yu Mi)
Hello
- Let me help you. - Thank you.
- Hello. - Oh, no.
(What was that sound?)
- Please take off your shoes. - Oh, my shoes.
Those balls never popped before. She should shed a bit of weight.
Please have a seat.
- What's your height and weight? - Can she disclose it?
- It's a secret. - We need to know...
to talk about her worry.
- Right. - You can tell us roughly.
- You're very tall, too. - Thank you. Well...
I'm 165cm tall.
As you can see, I'm quite big. I weigh about 100kg.
About 100kg.
Does it make you feel uncomfortable at all?
No, I haven't experienced any discomfort or inconvenience.
- Not at all? - No, but my mum...
stresses me out so much about losing weight.
- Does it make you eat more? - It's possible.
- Yes, it does. - Because of your mum?
Yes, because of my mum.
I wasn't really aware of it, but I realised at one point...
that I eat when my mum stresses me out.
- That's how you relieve stress. - I reach for food unconsciously.
When I try to eat something when we gather for holidays,
my mum says this all the time.
"How can you even think of eating it when you look like that?"
"How can you even want to eat it?"
"I wasn't going to put any food out because I hate seeing you eat."
"I shouldn't have put it out."
You'll actually gain more weight if you eat like that.
- I'm stressed out when I eat. - Exactly.
I also think she is too harsh.
I only eat one bowl of rice at each meal.
When people eat samgyeopsal, they usually order...
- one additional serving. - Yes.
That's all I eat.
Well...
So you order an additional serving when you eat one serving?
- Most people eat that much. - Yes, I eat two servings, too.
That's how much you usually eat.
- She's so cute. - Did your mother say...
these things before you got married?
I worked as an aerobics instructor when I was 20 years old.
- Then you must've been slim. - You must've been slender.
I started gaining weight when I quit that job at the age of 22.
That's when the nagging began.
- She used to exercise. - I see.
One day, I came home late from work and...
was looking for something to eat because I hadn't eaten dinner yet.
There was always food at my place.
Strangely, I couldn't find anything. So I went through all the cupboards.
Then I found out that my mum had hidden all the food.
I was hungry, so I started eating whatever I found.
My mum was nagging beside me the whole time.
- She kept going on. - Yes. I was so sad...
that she wouldn't let me eat.
- You must've lost your appetite. - No.
- I was crying and eating. - She ate while crying.
(I was crying and eating.)
So you were crying like this.
(Gosh, that's so sad.)
She's so cute.
Didn't you want to stop eating?
- You should've gotten angry at her. - I wanted to do that.
I really wanted to do that. It crushed my pride.
I wanted to just throw my spoon, but I was hungry.
I also felt that I'd be losing...
- if I actually threw it. - I see.
I know what you mean, but eating like that...
- puts you in a bad mood. - Yes, that's right.
You'll feel hungry soon and eat again.
What are you talking about? She already ate.
No, it's not satiating at all.
Is that so? Anyway,
she must be here today because she's fed up.
Let's meet her mother now. Hello, Ma'am.
Hello.
- The mother is slim. - Ma'am,
why are you giving your daughter such a hard time?
She's saying that she weighs 100kg,
but I think she actually weighs over 100kg.
- But... - Ma'am.
You can't say everything that is on your mind.
Even at this age, I just drink a grain smoothie for breakfast...
and eat a bowl of multi-grain rice for lunch.
I eat healthy food for dinner as well.
In addition, I exercise whenever my time allows.
I do my best to exercise a lot. However, my daughter always...
lies down after eating.
I don't like seeing that,
so I tell her to get up and exercise.
Were you ever happy with your daughter's figure?
She weighed 52kg when she was in her 20s.
- She only weighed 52kg. - That's very slim.
- She must've been very skinny. - She was so pretty back then.
- She must've been pretty. - She was prettier than most girls.
- Please show us her photo. - I'm curious.
- She looks charming. - She was very pretty.
I can understand why her mother is giving her such a hard time.
Is there another photo?
- Oh, my. - She was so pretty.
Show us another one.
- I see. - Oh, my.
(She looks very different now.)
Her face used to be so pretty and charming.
When I first saw her, I actually thought that she'd be prettier...
- if she loses a bit of weight. - I thought that, too.
The stress her mother is giving her will make her put on more weight.
I also have a kid, so I understand...
how much visiting your family's home means.
I crave my mum's food so much.
I terribly miss that taste, and that's why I visit my parents.
If my mum just gives me a cup of grain smoothie,
- I'll feel so betrayed. - Let's talk about that.
Did you really just give her a grain smoothie and nothing else?
Yes.
- Why? - When she wakes up in the morning,
- She is so confident. - she asks for food.
The moment I see her, I don't want to give her any food.
She says that she doesn't eat much, but I don't think it's true.
- Does she eat a lot? - Yes. When she eats meat,
she devours 2 or 3 pieces at the same time.
When I can't bear to watch that sight any more,
I say, "Stop eating now. You've eaten more than enough."
Then she ignores me and keeps on eating.
- That's why we start arguing. - It's like a war.
It's different from what you said. So you eat three pieces at once?
- No, I don't eat 3 pieces at once. - Then, do you eat 2?
I eat two pieces of meat with lots of vegetables.
That's not so bad.
Perhaps she meant an entire steak by a piece of meat.
- Come on. - Really?
We heard that Yu Mi's mother nags at her often.
We set up a hidden camera in the waiting room.
(They set up a hidden camera.)
- We took such measure to see... - How real.
how often Yu Mi's mum nags at her. Let's take a look.
We just need to wait now.
- It's real. - My goodness.
(She looks for snacks as soon as she sits down.)
Snacks are provided.
- She eats right away. - She begins to eat by herself.
(I must eat before Mum gets here.)
- I had not eaten breakfast. - I see.
- Hello. - Hello.
- Hello. - What are you eating?
- How have you been? - There are a lot of snacks.
(She spots Yu Mi.)
She spotted her.
(I have been caught.)
- Yu Mi looks nervous. - What are you doing?
Didn't you eat lunch? Why didn't you eat lunch?
- Chew slowly before you swallow. - She eats too fast.
I am keeping my eyes on you so that you will chew slowly.
- She won't even sit down. - Close your legs.
- Why would you sit like that? - She began to nag right away.
(Sighing)
Chew your food and eat slowly.
She doesn't even like the way Yu Mi is sitting.
Your trousers are white.
They make you look bigger.
- Her nagging won't stop. - For goodness' sake.
I don't understand you.
When was the last time you saw your daughter?
- We met on the New Year's Day. - It has been a while.
That means she had not seen her daughter for six months.
You began to nag the moment you laid your eyes on her.
Looking at my daughter really frustrates me.
- I can't help but sigh repeatedly. - I see.
That's why...
Why did you pause?
- She must feel bad. - Yu Mi's mother is distressed, too.
Are you distressed?
I am sure she loves her daughter.
- Isn't that right, Ma'am? - She startled me.
(Teary-eyed)
- I want to treat her well. - I understand.
I wish she would watch what she eats.
I don't want to nag at her, either.
Right.
Ma'am, if you would be honest,
are you bothered by your daughter's figure?
Perhaps you are worried about what people might say.
Of course I am.
She is worried about it.
When Yu Mi comes home for the holidays,
I become very mindful of my neighbours.
I am embarrassed.
I don't even say that my daughter is home because I am embarrassed.
I want to go to the market with my daughter,
but it is embarrassing to be seen with her.
When my children come home, they want to eat out.
However, I get afraid that someone I know will see us.
I avoid eating out with Yu Mi as much as possible.
I tell my children that we should eat at home.
We often eat at home when the family gathers.
- Yu Mi's feelings must be hurt. - She is a part of the community.
- People gossip a lot. - As a mother, she does not want...
- people to talk badly about Yu Mi. - It's understandable.
(While her actions are understandable,)
(can't she support her daughter with love?)
- Why are you crying? - She must have mixed feelings.
She must feel sad.
What kind of parent says that her child is embarrassing?
Your mother loves you, but she is distressed.
- Don't take her word at face value. - That's right.
- Think about it this way. - She is upset.
She must be upset that she has such thoughts.
She wants her daughter...
to be beautiful and healthy.
- That's what she wants. - Yes.
A mother should be on her child's side.
Yu Mi's mother said harsh words. Even a stranger wouldn't say,
"It is embarrassing to eat out with her."
When a mother says such things, her daughter wouldn't have...
(What good would it do?)
- anyone to lean on. - You are right.
- I cannot help but speak harshly. - If they don't change their ways,
it will only deepen the misunderstanding.
- They should look for better ways. - That's right.
- They should find a middle ground. - You are right.
I hope they reach an understanding.
I am sure she is worried about Yu Mi's husband, too.
Let's hear from Yu Mi's husband who is in the audience.
- Let's hear from him. - It's nice to meet you.
- Hello. - Give him the microphone.
- He is handsome. - What do you think about her worry?
I think it's a worry. When I visit my mother-in-law,
there is nothing to eat in the house.
- Does she not cook for you? - Why would she do that?
Since my wife eats a lot,
my mother-in-law nags at me about her.
She tells me to watch what she eats and make her lose weight.
I can neither side with my mother-in-law nor my wife.
It must be hard.
When they argue, I sit on the sofa...
and wait for them to finish. It puts me in a tight spot.
Who is the woman sitting next to you?
Hello, I am Yu Mi's close friend.
- You must be her best friend. - It's nice to meet you.
- Yes. - In your eyes,
when does Yu Mi seem the most pitiable?
Yu Mi's mother uses incredibly harsh words.
"Your body doesn't look like a person's."
"You don't even look like a person."
She once called me and said,
"Since you are her best friend, call her..."
"and say harsh things."
(Say harsh things.)
It won't help her lose weight.
Stress will only make her eat more.
Some people excel under stress.
- It's not the right way. - Ma'am,
do you speak harshly to other family members as well?
- I treat them the same. - It's her style.
I used to nag at my husband...
for his round belly.
He eats half a package of tofu...
or two boiled potatoes for dinner. That's how he eats.
- That's incredible. - He followed the regime...
and succeeded in losing weight.
However, Yu Mi refuses to listen to me.
I used to nag at her more.
I see a man who is wearing the Marine Corps cap.
He must be Yu Mi's father. It's nice to meet you.
- It's nice to meet you. - Hello.
I am Yu Mi's father.
Does your wife nag at you often?
It's unbelievable.
She does it all the time.
As you can see, I am 70 years old.
He looks very healthy.
I am 174cm tall.
(He is 174cm tall.)
Wouldn't you say...
- I am pretty fit? - You are in the best shape.
She still nags at me to lose my belly fat.
You have a flat stomach.
For a 70-year-old man,
- he is in a great shape. - That's right.
- He is relatively thin. - For many years,
I had to eat a bowl of seaweed soup in replace of dinner.
- Before, - It's like "Old boy".
I survived on boiled potatoes and tofu...
like she has mentioned.
It feels like we are interviewing a North Korean defector.
- He sounds like one. - It's so sad.
"I survived on boiled potatoes and tofu for several years."
Do you know what Yu Mi said?
- "Old boy". - "Old boy".
He is locked up and fed.
Between your daughter and your wife,
who is in a bigger state of distress?
I agree with my wife.
(The alliance is broken.)
I thought she nags at you a lot.
- Sir. - He doesn't want trouble.
(She might take away the boiled potatoes.)
To go on a diet,
- I have to be determined. - That's right.
- It has to come from my own will. - That's right.
I cannot lose weight...
when my mother is forcing me to lose weight.
One day, she called me.
"A broadcasting company will give you a call."
- Did she tell you that? - Yes.
She had found a four-week diet programme...
and signed me up without consulting me.
Even though it wasn't my intention to do that,
I worked out for four weeks.
I think it only backfired.
Yu Mi is a mother and a wife.
You should have consulted with her...
before sending her off for four weeks.
I realise now...
that I acted as I pleased.
However, I cannot give up on my daughter.
- It's understandable. - You love her very much.
I will never give up on her.
You are still embarrassed by her.
It shouldn't matter what she looks like.
- I do what I do out of love. - Of course.
I wouldn't care about anyone else's daughter.
There weren't anything else you signed her up for, right?
There was also...
- a four-month programme. - Was there more?
She must have done it often.
There was a four-month programme.
- A four-month programme? - Yes.
Since it didn't work, she opted for four months.
- Well... - What's next? Four years?
She made excuses about her baby and her family...
and attempted to give up.
- Of course. - It's difficult.
I told her that I will look after her baby...
so that she can go.
- You offered to help. - That's right.
She missed a good opportunity.
How was the four-week programme?
It was very...
- How was it? - I don't want to think about it.
It was a bolt from the blue.
It wasn't hard because I had to stay away from my baby.
I just didn't want to do it.
I hope she would stop signing me up for programmes.
- It must be stressful. - Hyun Woo,
you are a positive man who finds reasons behind every action.
Whose side are you on?
I think it's a problem this country has.
Even when an individual is happy,
the society wants to change her according to its standards.
Isn't her happiness the only thing that matters?
I think she will be unhappy if she tries to fit herself...
to the society's mold.
Does that mean you are on Yu Mi's side?
Yes, I am.
- You are on Yu Mi's side. - Yes.
If I were embarrassed by my looks,
- I wouldn't have come here. - That's right.
I would have lived in seclusion.
I have a question.
You said that you must be determined to lose weight.
Is this not the right time?
I am getting the drive to work out.
However, my mother keeps on nagging.
- She ruins your mood. - Yes.
- She stresses you out. - Right.
Even if the conversation started off with a different topic,
it always comes to my weight.
When I say, "I can't seem to get pregnant with a second child",
she goes, "It's because you are overweight."
"You can't get pregnant because you are overweight."
"You should lose weight."
That's what she says.
- It must baffle you. - She cuts me off.
When you have a worry,
she doesn't listen to you. She has a conclusion ready.
Every conversation ends with the same conclusion.
That's unhealthy.
Mum.
I mean, Ma'am.
- "Mum"? - She is empathising.
- She startled me. - "Mum."
- I thought she was your mum. - I am immersed in their story.
I think you should give up.
You should grit your teeth and cook her a good meal...
- when she comes over. - I agree.
- Do you think you can do that? - I can't do that.
I can't give up on my daughter.
Yu Mi said that...
she will lose weight when she wants to.
She said that your nagging keeps her from losing weight.
- Your words only hinder her. - Can you try and let go?
When I recommend swimming, she says the pool is too far.
She promised me that she will go on a diet...
when her child is about to go to kindergarten.
Three years have passed since she made that promise.
She is weak-willed. She doesn't show any efforts.
Ma'am, you talk of will...
and a promise that has not been kept for three years.
Repeatedly bringing up something that wasn't achieved in years...
- stresses out the both of you. - That's right.
It stresses out the both of you.
We should think about it this way, too.
In a sense, Yu Mi used her mother as an excuse...
- to maintain her current situation. - That's right.
Perhaps she is self-justifying.
- I... - Be honest.
- Be honest. - You want me to be honest.
Yu Mi, we are on your side.
- You are not entirely wrong. - I see.
My son will enter primary school in three years.
Other women told me...
that when children go to school,
they will say, "My friends think you're fat."
"I don't want you to come to school."
Recently, I heard his friend in hapkido class say,
"Your mum is fat!"
I smiled and said, "Don't say that."
It made me realise that I should lose weight.
Going on a diet is always on my mind.
It is on my mind...
- 365 days a year. - I see.
(She needs trust and support from her beloved ones.)
- She's not happy. - I can understand.
Many people easily say, "You just have to lose some weight."
However, nothing in life is that easy.
It takes time to be determined.
- People should wait for her. - Yes.
Ma'am, you pressed your daughter too hard.
I wouldn't go on a diet if I were in her shoes.
It upsets you to say harsh words...
to your daughter, right?
- Yes, I regret it. - Do you shed tears over it?
- Be honest. - Have you cried?
- I cry a lot after we argue. - Of course you do.
She feels bad.
- I cry all the time. - They are both soft-hearted.
- She even cries now. - Yes.
Yu Mi's mother wants to see her daughter in a pretty outfit.
Yu Mi wants her mother to cook for her and be understanding.
She wants her mother to give her time.
- Both of them... - They want different things.
are quite stubborn.
What words do you want to hear from your mother?
She tells me not to come home...
for holidays or Dad's birthday.
She tells me that she won't mind not seeing me for a year...
if it means I will lose weight.
Those words hurt her feelings.
I want her to stop worrying and say,
"My daughter, I miss you. When are you coming home?"
"I want to see your face."
I want us to have a normal conversation.
She wants to be loved by her mother.
I hope they will come to an understanding today.
Ma'am, stop thinking about...
how much weight you want her to lose.
If she takes small steps from today,
- will you stop saying harsh words? - I will.
I want her to weigh 60kg.
Don't talk about your goal.
It's only a wish.
- 60kg? - I want Yu Mi to say...
that she will work out at least 30 minutes a day.
I wish she would lose...
- even 1kg a month. - Don't talk about weight.
You are used to exercising every day.
Would you be able to quit?
- No. - Right?
It's the same for your daughter.
Help her start with a sound mind.
I won't nag anymore...
if she comes to a resolution.
I worry about her health.
You want her to exercise 30 minutes a day.
Would you be able to work out 30 minutes a day?
If I refuse to put in effort in a situation like this,
it will only prove that I am lazy.
- That's right. - It's not for anyone else.
- It's for you. - It's for myself.
I will work out every day...
- for 30 minutes. - All right.
(I will work out every day for 30 minutes.)
(We'll support you!)
Think about it this way.
Your worry runs deeper...
than your mother's nagging.
I think it's important...
that the relationship improved and you came to a resolution.
Let's start with Hyun Woo.
A long conversation...
healed the scars in Yu Mi's heart.
I think their relationship will change for the better.
I still think it's a worry.
She made up her mind,
but it's still a worry.
I hope Yu Mi's mother will stop nagging her from now on.
Promise me
Since her worry has been somewhat resolved,
- I won't press the button. - Okay.
- San E. - I think it's a worry.
(San E thinks it's a worry.)
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Time's up.
I wonder how many votes her worry received.
Show us the result.
"My Mum Hates Me".
Their conversation ended on a hopeful note.
It got over 100 votes.
- It got over 100 votes. - Did it get 102 votes?
Let's see.
It received 102 votes.
Thank you.
You can do this. Stand up...
and show your mother.
Let's take a walk around the studio.
It's a new beginning.
Put your hands behind your back and walk slowly.
This is the beginning.
Ma'am, this is what you wanted, right?
All right. Let's go.
(Yu Mi's mother comes out to meet her.)
(Good job, my daughter.)
How nice.
(I will just support you from now on.)
This is "A Man Who Endures".
Hello, I am a housewife in my 30s...
who gets angry multiple times a day.
My husband is incredibly obtuse.
"My goodness. Honey, what happened to your hand?"
"It's okay."
"A chunk of flesh has been cut off."
My goodness.
"You should have gone to the hospital!"
"It's okay. It won't kill me."
"I bandaged the wound."
No matter how much pain he is in,
my husband never goes to the hospital.
- Some people are like that. - I see.
(Gosh, my teeth hurt.)
"I told you to go to the dentist."
"It's okay."
"It won't kill me."
Even when he is writhing in pain because of toothache,
- he won't go to a clinic. - Toothache is the worst.
He has endured toothache for the last 10 years.
(He has endured the pain for 10 years.)
This happened one time.
(Throwing up)
"You throw up all the time these days."
"You should get a gastroscopy."
"It's okay. I won't die."
"This won't kill me."
(I don't think you look well.)
"It's not okay with me."
"Do you want to get a gastroscopy..."
"or a divorce?"
"I won't die."
- "This won't kill me." - My goodness.
That's the only thing he says.
"Honey, unless you want to make me a widow,"
"listen to me and go to the hospital."
That's unbelievable.
When I was single,
I didn't go to the hospital...
- unless I was really sick. - I guess men are like that.
They are rather obtuse.
I changed a lot after the marriage.
Now that I have a kid, I go to the hospital right away.
Your motto became,
- "Things happen." - Yes.
What would you say to a man who endured toothache for 10 years?
- That shouldn't happen. - That's right.
Right? San E, what about you?
Do you go to the hospital?
I love going to hospitals.
- Really? - It's lovely.
I love making reservations at the hospital.
I love that, too.
I love filling my schedule with appointments.
I would go to a dental clinic at 3pm and somewhere else the next.
I love filling my schedule with appointments.
- Why do you like hospitals? - He is addicted to hospitals.
Going to hospitals makes me feel like I am getting healthier.
Really?
Let's talk to the woman who sent us a worry.
- All right. - Please come on out.
Come on!
(Whose worry involves a husband who never goes to the hospital?)
(Son Kyung Ok)
Hello.
Doesn't he go to the hospital even when he is very ill?
Did he really lose a chunk of his flesh?
Yes. Even when he lost a chunk of his flesh,
he didn't go to the hospital.
- Does he say, "I won't die"? - Does he really say that?
- He says it all the time. - How does he say it?
(My goodness.)
Is that how he said it?
(It makes her worry even more serious.)
- Then it's a serious worry. - You need to understand...
that this worry makes her emotional.
- Right. - She has so many things to say.
- She doesn't know where to start. - That's right.
You have a lot to say, right?
I will tell you how serious it is.
One time, I practically dragged my husband...
to the hospital.
A gastroscopy showed...
that his stomach is in tatters.
They also found...
- gastric polyps. - They found a few.
The doctor said he will decide...
whether to use medication...
- or remove them. - He can also remove them.
He said he will decide at the next meeting.
However, my husband only took the medicine he was prescribed.
- Did he not go back? - He didn't.
- Didn't he go back? - How long has it been?
- It has been a year. - A year?
- A year? - Yes.
Gastric polyps can lead to a serious illness.
- If they are malignant, - That's right.
- they can lead to cancer. - That's right.
Is your husband okay? He didn't go to the hospital for a year.
Problems could have developed.
He is alive yet.
I see.
He must be anxious, too.
What does he do for a living?
My husband?
He works at a brick company...
- in Pyeongchang, Gangwon Province. - A brick company.
It must be a physically demanding job.
That's right. When my husband is lying down to take a rest,
I can see his muscles twitching...
- on his calves and thighs. - Really?
That means his body is under a lot of stress.
I asked him repeatedly...
to get acupuncture at an oriental medicine clinic.
He never listens to me. It makes me feel so upset.
It must make you feel so frustrated.
I can't believe someone can endure toothache for 10 years.
How could he put up with that pain?
My husband had a traffic accident in the past.
- Was it a car accident? - Yes, it was.
As a result, he lost two upper molars.
His whole gum was affected as well.
Whenever he starts to have some gingivitis,
he says the whole gum is uncontrollably sore.
When it's sore, he takes painkiller.
I see.
Even when he has insomnia, he takes painkiller.
He should get treatment.
You can't chew properly without molars.
It would then affect his digestive system.
That's right.
The painkiller could hurt the whole digestive system even more.
That's why he also takes a lot of antacids.
I think the main reason why he avoids hospital treatment...
could be due to his fear of clinics.
Does he have a needle phobia?
I don't think so.
He is just stubborn.
He just doesn't want to go. He won't go.
That would really make you mad.
Could he have some bad memories associated with a dentist?
- I don't think so. - Then...
he could really have a needle phobia like what Dong Yeob mentioned.
Without further ado, we should talk to him now.
Where are you?
There he is.
Why don't you go to hospital?
He looks like a doctor.
- He looks healthy. - Doesn't he?
- He looks calm. - He looks like a medical doctor.
Here is my real reason why I avoid going to hospitals.
Everyone has minor symptoms that don't require medical attention.
You ignore them and move on with your life.
I'm not in excruciating pain. Why should I go see a doctor?
If you put up with that, you'd end up dying.
- Yes, you could. - You should get a medical check-up.
So far I think I'm strong and sound.
I'm strong enough to go on and earn money for my family.
If you don't get rid of the polyps,
it could possibly lead to a cancer.
Why don't you have them removed?
According to the doctor, not all the polyps are malignant.
He even said that they could disappear by themselves.
I also took some medicine before. I feel okay now.
You've had a terrible toothache for 10 years.
It must have been so painful.
Yes, especially when the season changes from autumn to winter,
I tend to have the most excruciating pain.
I even want to cut and throw it out.
- It hurts that much. - Does it?
I put on a mask to block off the chill.
Before using a mask, you need treatment by doctors.
I secretly went there once, when I was in so much pain.
- I couldn't handle the pain. - Then?
I was advised that the total cost...
for the treatment would be around 10,000 dollars.
- 10,000 dollars? - About 10 teeth should be fixed.
I thought of having dentures after a gum treatment,
rather than paying 10,000 dollars for 10 teeth.
- You want a denture instead? - Spending that much money...
makes me feel so uncomfortable.
I think it is too extravagant.
I have five children.
- When I go out... - Five kids?
- I don't want to... - You are not that ill after all.
I don't want to make them feel...
envious of other people because they have more than them,
even though I can't raise them to make other people envy them.
I want to do that as their father.
You want to let them learn whatever they want...
- with that 10,000 dollars. - Yes.
What do you want to do for your wife with 10,000 dollars?
- It's understandable. - My wife loves writing.
If I have 10,000 dollars at hand to spend on her,
I would make a studio where she can write.
You are so wonderful.
- He's incredible. - He really loves his family.
- Wait. - That's not all.
- As a wife, it is a serious issue. - It truly is...
a very heart-warming story,
- but as his family, it's not right. - That's right.
- I'd destroy the studio with rage. - He won't make a studio.
If you have five kids, that's all the more reason why...
you should stay healthier.
Saving 10,000 dollars now...
- seems meaningless. - It is.
I'm still alive and kicking.
I'm doing my best.
From what we can see, your face says you need to rest.
- You don't look healthy. - You look pale.
You came here because you are unwell.
Tell us if he had any serious health crisis in the past.
- An emergency case? - He had one.
It was when he was working as a bus driver.
He once lost his consciousness while he was behind the wheel.
That could have led to a big accident.
- While he was driving? - When he gained his consciousness,
he managed to park the bus on the side road.
Then he made an announcement to the passengers and...
asked them to call for an ambulance.
- What was the reason? - What happened?
Please tell us about it.
I had a terrible stomachache. It was around my kidneys.
It was urolithiasis.
- It could be so painful. - I thought it was just stomachache.
How could you endure the pain?
I heard it could be as painful as giving birth.
Couldn't you make him go to a hospital in advance?
It is really dangerous to lose consciousness while driving.
You had forced him to do the endoscopy.
- I could have done that. - Yes.
We've been seeing each other only during the weekends for three years.
- So I can't... - You can't look after him well.
- Just on weekends? - I can't really look after him.
Didn't you say you have five kids?
- Well... - How old is the youngest?
He's nine months old now.
Nine months old?
You must look after your health.
I recently paid a visit to him without telling him in advance.
He was clutching his ankle and moaning alone.
- At home? - Yes.
So I forced him to go to a clinic.
- I took him there. - What did they say?
His inflammation got serious.
- It got worse. - Was he putting it off?
Yes.
He should've seen the doctor right away.
- He made it worse. - He put it off...
because he wanted to keep working.
The thing is I didn't have time to get some rest.
It's so hard to find a worker to replace me if I take a rest.
If I take a leave,
- it will affect the others. - I see.
I'm just wondering what level of pain...
will make you feel the need to see a doctor.
I think it should be something that warrants hospitalisation.
Do you go to a hospital only when you need to be hospitalised?
No, that's not it.
- I am... - He talks really calmly.
I know. He's very stubborn.
He keeps cool and stays really stubborn.
I feel we are being sucked into his logic.
Is it because you wanted to...
appear strong and masculine to your wife?
You said you went to a dentist on your own once.
Didn't he see a doctor without telling you?
Hasn't he gotten busted once?
Yes, one day...
he didn't come home until 3am.
- I called him about 20 times. - You were worried.
He didn't answer the phone.
At the break of the dawn, I finally got a call from him.
I asked him why he didn't come home.
He was very hesitant.
He kept saying that he was sorry.
It made me so angry.
- So you pushed him to say more? - Yes.
He said that due to a severe stomachache...
while coming home with a chauffeur, he was taken to emergency room.
What kind of stomachache was it?
- What was it? - According to what I heard,
the doctors said it was food poisoning.
Why didn't you tell her that?
Why didn't he tell her? Why should he hide that?
Why did he keep it to himself?
Everyone wants to let others know when they are unwell.
- That's right. - Exactly.
Are you embarrassed about going to a clinic?
There are people who feel like that.
No, I don't feel embarrassed. It was just because I was...
supposed to be working at that time.
I just want her to think that I'm having a good time...
drinking with my friends than worrying about me.
That would make me more comfortable.
- You are very peculiar. - I don't want her to worry.
You must have seen a doctor without telling her, right?
You can divulge all of your secrets here today.
- Tell us all the secrets. - Tell us everything.
About 5 or 6 years ago,
when I was walking with a client,
I got hit by a car once.
(You didn't even tell her about it?)
- I got hit by a car. - He looks calm.
"I got hit by a car once."
How could he stay so calm when he's talking about a car accident?
It would make his wife so frustrated.
Does it make you happy if you don't get busted about seeing a doctor?
No, it doesn't. It was because...
after the accident, I felt okay.
I asked for the contact number of the driver just in case.
- The driver seemed really worried. - Of course.
So just to make sure, I went to the hospital and had a rest.
I told my wife that I needed some sleep after drinking.
- Were you aware of it? - Did you know about it?
- No, I didn't. - She didn't know.
It's not that I don't understand his intention, but his behaviours...
make me feel like I'm not important.
- I feel ignored. - That's right.
It makes me wonder if I have to live with him.
On the other hand, how would you feel if your wife...
has an accident but takes it lightly and insists to go home?
She should go to a hospital right away.
How would you feel?
Wouldn't you feel so frustrated and upset about it?
I will take her to a hospital no matter what.
Is that because...
you're a man?
No, that's not it.
- No? - That's so silly.
Are you worried that...
she might keep nagging you to see a doctor for everything?
That's not it.
- "That's not it." - "That's not it."
- Well... - "That's not it."
Then, since you have five kids and you want to stay healthy,
do you do any exercise regularly?
- "No, that's not it." - I don't...
I don't do any particular exercise.
The work that I do for a living...
requires me to use muscles a lot for nearly 10 hours a day.
I burn up a lot of calories per day.
So working is exercise for me.
I drink 4 or 5 large bottles of water every day.
- Every day? - I had chronic constipation,
but not any more.
Are you saying that this job has improved your health?
Very much so.
Regardless of that, having poor complexion...
- is an important issue. - It is.
To tell you the truth,
he is younger than Tae Gyun.
- He's only 44. - Really?
- He's a year younger. - Then...
- Am I older? - He looks older.
(No way.)
What do you think?
Tae Gyun is a year older than you.
Even when I was young, many people said I looked old.
- "That's not it." - "That's not it."
"That's not it."
You brought someone who knows...
- what you've been through. - Yes.
- Who is that? - My mother.
- Your mother. - Where are you?
Take the mic.
Mothers-in-law always take care of their sons-in-law.
You must care for him a lot.
So what if I do?
He doesn't care for my presents.
Whenever the three of us go somewhere together,
instead of thinking that those two are a couple,
- they ask if we're married. - My goodness.
That's frustrating, too.
- People think you two are married? - Yes.
- Really? - How did you feel...
When you heard that?
As I've told you already,
- As a child... - people always said I looked old,
- Really? - so it doesn't bother me.
You're saying it's congenital.
If people think you're that old,
- it shocks you. - Right.
I'm sure you were upset inside.
When one of my older brothers took our dad to a welfare centre,
the staff said, "Are you both registering?"
- My brother was upset for days. - "Are you both registering?"
- He went through a hard time. - I see.
One of the husband's colleagues managed to...
take time off from work today.
- He might help us out. - Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
Do you really have that much work to do?
Yes, that's true and there's not much time for a break.
We work from 8am to 10pm...
- most times. - My goodness.
If you see him in pain, why don't you...
- send him to a doctor? - Exactly.
I told him to go and see a doctor.
He told me not to worry and get to work.
Whenever his wife visits,
I feel sorry for her and guilty, too.
- Do you? - I feel bad.
I haven't heard the Gangwon dialect in a while.
It's nice.
- It's so heart-warming. - It is.
(He's a character.)
Did you ever get hurt since the work is hard?
- Yes, a few times. - What did you do?
- Tell us what you did. - He sounds so friendly.
What did you do when you got hurt?
- Did you see a doctor? - I went to a hospital.
- Well done. - Well done.
Where did you get hurt?
I got acupuncture.
- That's what you should do. - Yes.
Your boss doesn't go to hospital,
- and he just works in pain. - He endures it.
He doesn't see a doctor, then why did you go to hospital?
Why did you go to hospital?
Because I have a family.
- That's it. - That's the correct answer.
- That's it. - That's what he should say.
I have a family. If I'm in pain,
- I have to get help. - That's right.
That's the right thing to do.
Did you ever think it would be nicer...
to buy your children some fried chicken...
instead of getting acupuncture?
Yes, I did think of it.
- Of course. - Then why did you get acupuncture?
I told you already.
- For his health. - Tell us again.
I told you already.
- Do you want us to be quiet? - You just made him angry.
You just made the innocent guy angry.
You did.
- Well... - That innocent guy got angry.
He said what the wife wants her husband to say,
- so I asked him again. - "I told you already."
Rather than spending that money on buying your children's snacks,
you need to care for yourself so you can stick around...
- for a long time and protect them. - That's correct.
- Let's ask them. - I think...
if you really care for your kids, you shouldn't be like this.
I mean... Hello.
Nice to meet you.
- Hello. - Hello.
As the eldest, do you understand how your mum feels?
I do, a lot.
I often see her get upset...
and cry when she's alone.
Dad should take care of her, but...
Just a moment.
Mum's worried about your dad.
You get upset when you see your mum worry about your dad.
What's your biggest worry?
He needs to live much longer,
and the youngest is only nine months old.
I hope he gets to see him...
start school in seven years' time.
- Of course he'll do that. - He will.
He's younger than me.
- He'll definitely live to see that. - Don't worry.
- He'll attend all your weddings. - Okay.
What's your biggest concern regarding your dad?
He doesn't have to care so much for us any more.
He should care for himself.
You want him to look after himself.
- Do what they want. - Yes.
We'll give you one last chance...
to say what you really want.
- Go on. - Honey.
I want you to get the annual medical check-up.
Doesn't he get the medical check-up?
He says he's too busy.
Shouldn't there be a penalty?
When was your last check-up?
- I've never had one. - Gosh.
- Oh dear. - He needs to do it from now.
She wants you to get a check-up every year...
since you've never had one.
(Will you come with me?)
If that's what she wants, I'll go with her for a check-up.
- Good for you. - Really?
(You must.)
We'll start with Hyun Woo.
- Press the button. - Is this a worry?
He said yes.
I thought you were an understanding guy.
The best way to be a hero for your family and kids...
is to do what they want.
- Yes. - That's right.
- Young Ran. - This is a worry.
Raina?
It's a worry.
San E, what do you think?
- Is this a worry? - I will say no.
Because he said he'd get a check-up.
In my case, my father was sick,
but medical cost in the States is very expensive.
- He struggled for two weeks. - It's so expensive in the States.
Now I look back and think...
what's important is that...
he's there for kids and his wife.
Earning a fortune and doing great things for us...
means less than him being healthy and there for the family.
- That's right. - Okay.
If you think this is a worry, press your button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Now stop.
Sir, if there's anything you'd like to say...
to your wife, you can say it now.
What I did may have seemed foolish to you,
but I did so because I wanted our family to be happy.
If this has upset you and made you worry so much,
then I'll go and see a doctor...
whenever I'm in pain. I love you.
I hope you keep your word.
That sounded so sincere.
(We wish you happiness.)
Please show us how many votes they got.
(The result)
The current winner has 154 votes.
Six.
If they get 156 votes, this family wins.
How many votes will they get?
They got 126 votes.
(Survived and eliminated)
- Thank you. - Thanks for coming on.
- Hello. Hello. - It's "Hello News".
(Hello. Hello.)
- That startled me. - "Hello News".
It's time for "Hello News".
Let's see who it's about...
and what news they have for us.
Look at that face.
- He's so handsome. - He's handsome.
I've been working for my parents...
for eight years.
A stationery store, a jewellery shop and underwear store.
- There are three stores? - Really?
Do they put you to work a lot?
They treat me like a full-time employee.
- Every day? - That's a lie.
I never keep him all day.
During the vacation, I had to work seven hours a day.
(Is he free now?)
- He's working. - He's at work.
(Is he still working?)
It's 2 dollars 40 cents.
- That's the stationery store. - He has a great voice.
- He's good-looking. - He's handsome.
He is. He's so cute.
- You're still here. - Yes.
But I work fewer hours now.
I'm only here for 1 or 2 hours when my parents are busy.
Really?
(That's an improvement.)
- Well done. - Hello.
Is everything good? Mum wants to see you.
- At the jewellery shop? - Is he on another shift?
That's the jewellery shop.
I just need to drop something off.
- Okay. See you. - He's alone again.
What's going on?
(Does he work less now?)
- Hello. - We meet again.
After we appeared on the show, our customers asked...
if we still put our son to work all the time.
To give him some time off,
we decided to sell the underwear store.
- They sold a store. - That should make things easier.
Look at that face.
He's so handsome.
(Woong's looks became an issue after the show.)
We got so many calls and visits from various...
entertainment agencies asking about Woong.
- He's now a trainee. - Is he really?
He's working hard on it.
Now that he's doing something,
he's much busier than before.
- He's working towards his dream. - Good for him.
I hope you cheer him on.
It's all about looks.
Where is he going?
(He works fewer hours now.)
- He couldn't play with friends. - Right.
He's good at basketball.
- He's good. - Wasting time in the store...
gave me a lot of stress.
Now I'm happy because I'm free.
You have much more time to play now.
Since being on TV,
he's been able to spend more time at school.
(Do people recognise you?)
I think people do recognise me.
Some say hi when they see me,
- and some sneak a peek. - He's handsome.
He's so good-looking.
I came just to see you.
Oh.
Bye. Thank you.
He's a star.
(Woong's life has changed.)
I think it's nice that...
I can do something about my dream.
Now my parents...
are interested in what I learn...
at the entertainment agency,
and they praise me and support me.
I hope you'll cheer me on.
Thank you.
He's so cheerful.
Well done.
I'm so pleased.
Our next guest spends each day...
in a battlefield.
"Tofu, Biji and jjigae".
- I know you're curious. - "Tofu, Biji and jjigae"?
Is she sick of eating that every day?
Don't say that.
- Why not? - These aren't edible.
- Aren't they? - "Tofu, Biji and Jjigae".
Hello, I'm a hairdresser in my 30s...
who's standing at a crossroads.
People who come to our salon say,
"What is all this?"
"I won't ever come here again."
Kids cry and say, "Mum, I'm scared."
Young ladies say,
"What is this smell?"
"I'll come some other time."
Older men say, "What's going on here?"
- "This place is a complete mess." - What's going on?
The salon is a mess.
I'm talking about the three dogs the owner of the salon owns.
Maltese terrier Tofu,
Samoyed Biji,
- and retriever Jjigae. - Don't eat those.
We can't eat those.
- Tofu, Biji and Jjigae. - Tofu, Biji and Jjigae.
- My goodness. - Their names are interesting.
Their names...
"A customer wants a haircut."
He doesn't reply.
"I said someone wants a haircut."
"Tell the person to wait."
"I'm brushing my babies."
(Let's brush your fur.)
- Seriously? - "Tofu."
"I'll make you look pretty."
"She wants to get a perm."
"Biji, do you want to play?"
"I'll take the kids out for a walk."
- What nonsense is this? - Gosh.
(What about the customer?)
We have customers.
I think of quitting hundreds of times a day,
but I grit my teeth to hang in there.
To tell you the truth,
I'm engaged to marry the owner of this salon.
I wasn't expecting that.
But I'm exhausted.
If he's going to keep the dogs in the salon,
then he'll have to quit working or forget about marriage.
That's the story.
(Forget about marriage.)
Do any of you have pets?
It's so much work. Maltese terriers are tiny,
but their faeces are this big.
It can't be this big.
- It's true. - It can't be.
It's true.
- It's this big. - The dog's tiny.
It can't possibly be that big.
- It can't be! - You have no idea.
Does it poo as it walks along?
(Does it really poo as it walks?)
- Stop it. - That's nonsense!
(I exaggerated.)
She sent us the story because the customers are not happy.
Please welcome our guest.
(Who is the lady who is concerned about her boyfriend's dogs?)
(Lee Ju Young)
(Look at her trousers.)
- She has a unique style. - She's a hair stylist.
Did your just tear your trousers?
(Did your tear your trousers?)
Your story shocked everyone.
How did they get their names?
Does he like those foods?
He likes tofu a lot,
but he stopped eating it since he got Tofu.
Because of the name?
- He must like it a lot. - Really?
What about Biji?
He still eats Biji.
- Does he? - What?
- He isn't consistent. - I don't get it.
It's a hair salon, but because we have fences to keep the dogs in,
people ask what we do.
- Do they think it's a dog cafe? - Yes.
Look.
- Gosh. - They're outside.
It doesn't look like a salon.
It looks like a dog cafe.
The dogs are outside.
- It looks like a dog cafe. - It does.
Isn't it fine if the dogs are kept outside?
Biji is a Samoyed,
and he barks loudly.
They call their brothers.
- "Brother! Brother!" - Really?
They call their brothers all the time.
You have to answer.
"Brother! Brother!"
(Brother! Brother!)
The interior and blinds are all wood,
and the dogs bite and chew them.
We clean the cage every day so it doesn't smell,
but people made official complaints.
They can't stand the smell.
That causes me more stress.
(The dogs go where they please.)
They're inside.
- Oh dear. - Oh dear.
They're huge.
They're cute, though.
- Look at that. - Look at it's bottom.
It's biting something.
(They bit into everything.)
They're so cute.
They are cute, though.
(The second round)
They're barking and fighting.
- The customers... - It's giving orders.
(She looks tired.)
- Look at her. - Is that you?
- You looked so tired. - Let's meet the boyfriend.
There's one man in the audience...
- who looks like her boyfriend. - He stands out.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
Hello.
- Welcome. - He's handsome.
People rarely keep large dogs in hair salons.
I like dogs.
- We can tell. - Okay.
You wouldn't do that if you didn't.
- Of course. - I always want to be with them,
so I bring them to work with me.
They can't play since we live in an apartment.
But people make complaints and you lose customers.
Isn't that a problem?
I feel sorry for the dogs.
They should be running around freely.
They're young.
- They can't talk. - Right.
They're very curious.
Of course they cause trouble.
- Customers... - Then don't keep them at work.
I bring them because I want to be with them.
What's your point?
(What are you saying?)
You're losing money.
- Must your customers suffer? - What's going on?
- You'll earn less. - Well...
That doesn't bother me.
He really loves dogs.
He really does.
Who did you leave them with today?
I take them everywhere.
- Are they here? - Yes. they're here.
- I see. Bring them up. - They're here.
(My goodness.)
They're pretty.
(Welcome Tofu, Biji and Jjigae.)
They're so cute.
(They're cute.)
Look, they're so pretty.
They're big.
- The Samoyed. - They're so cute.
I can see they're loved.
- They all got their hair dyed. - Are you scared?
Jjigae.
(Out of my way!)
- It's so cute. - Jjigae.
The harness has its name on it.
- Introduce them to us. - They smell lovely.
- They're well looked after. - This one...
This is Tofu, a Maltese terrier.
She's two.
- She's the smallest but toughest. - You're so sweet.
She's the pack leader.
She's small but tough.
- This is Biji. - I see.
She's nine months old.
- Nine months old? - She weighs about 20kg.
She's so pretty.
She loves food.
(Biji loves to eat.)
She'll do any trick for a snack.
(She's adorable.)
- Is Biji a girl? - Yes.
Jjigae's a Labrador retriever.
No, don't sniff me there.
(Don't sniff me there.)
(Why not?)
He's eight months old and was in an accident recently.
- I noticed that. - She had surgery.
(There's a visible wound.)
They are cute,
- but all three in a small space... - What a mess.
They're calm when they're indoors.
- Don't they bark? - No.
(Are you ready to play?)
(Let's shake.)
(They...)
(haven't been calm...)
(since they came out.)
Imagine that you're trying to get a haircut right now.
- It's distracting. - It's just...
The tail's so powerful.
(Whacking)
It just won't stop.
- Biji. - Sit still.
It won't stay still.
It just can't stay still.
He really loves her.
- He does. - The look in his eyes changed.
This one's getting carried away.
Stop kissing your dog.
(Stop kissing her.)
Can you help us clean up?
Can we keep Tofu on stage?
I guess we can.
I'm the guy from "Animal Farm".
(I'm the guy from "Animal Farm".)
- It's cute. - What exactly do you want?
Do you want Tofu, Kimchi and Jjigae...
(Where did Biji go and who is Kimchi?)
- It's Biji. - Don't say what you crave.
He's craving kimchi jjigae.
You don't like Biji.
Did you come on the show to send...
all three of them away?
Jjigae is the calmest of all the three.
I want to keep only that one dog.
I hope we could send the others...
to a family that can care for them.
- That will never happen. - That's tough.
I got them and they're my responsibility.
I think it's wrong to send them away.
Shouldn't your customers be your priority...
and not the dogs?
My customers are my priority,
but if I don't care for the dogs, who would?
Let's say I'm a customer and I came in for a haircut.
- He would just... - You're not a dog.
You're worth less than the dogs.
If I'm in the middle of brushing their fur,
I think I should finish it first.
Everyone should finish...
- My goodness. - what they started first.
You could cut your customer's hair first and then go back to the fur.
I try to untangle their fur. If I stop,
- I wouldn't know where to pick up. - Forget about the brushing.
- What about... - Start where it's tangled.
As for walking the dogs,
couldn't you take them out after you cut your customer's hair?
You didn't have to leave when your customer just came in.
Their walk times are set.
If I run into customers on my way out for a walk,
- I ask them to wait. - You go anyway?
- Because the customers... - This is what drives me crazy.
- He should help the customer first. - I agree.
- Right. - I don't understand...
- why he would go for a walk. - She's right.
How are the sales?
- It dropped. - Did it really drop?
Yes. We dropped about 3,000 to 4,000 dollars in sales.
- That's a lot. - That's crazy.
You're so talented. Why would you...
I don't think the sales dropped because of the dogs.
- Then what is it? - As for last month,
- it was Family Month. - Right.
People spent a lot of money then.
Since they spent a lot of money in May,
they won't have much money in June and July.
You have a positive attitude.
- More people would get haircuts. - People go on vacation.
I don't think it's the dogs' fault at all.
What about his future wife?
He never invests in me.
I meant, do you think it's because of the dogs?
She accidentally spurted out what she really wanted to say.
Yeong Ja asked a different question,
and she said, "He never invests in me."
- I heard it, too. - Yes.
Let's talk about that. How much does he spend on the dogs?
Everything is premium. Food, snacks, toys...
They even have a pool for dogs.
He went there so many times.
- I've heard of it. - Yes, there are pools.
He became a VIP member in three months.
- Really? - Yes.
Jjigae suddenly ran out and got into a car accident.
- I saw a scar earlier. - Yes.
- The stitches cost us 350 dollars. - It's so expensive.
On top of that, the dogs alone...
cost us over 1,000 dollars a month.
- 1,000 dollars? - Isn't it...
too much to spend considering the income you make?
I only buy what I always get.
What you always get?
I give them beef.
I also give them kangaroo meat for their muscles.
Jjigae recently had the accident.
I told her that the surgery cost 350 dollars,
but it was actually more.
- Really? - How much was it?
I paid about 400 dollars more in cash for the surgery.
You're planning to get married soon.
How are wedding plans going?
He's always having a hard time paying back his credit card debt.
- He is? - Yes.
His bank account is empty.
Oh no.
We have to buy a place, too.
We start fighting because of the dogs,
then that expands into whether we should marry or not.
- I see. - Of course.
This is a big problem.
Do you want to maintain what you have right now...
even if it gets in the way of your wedding?
Yes. I have to maintain what I have.
I can't reduce what I'm spending right now.
Their food and snacks need to be bought.
I looked into late night jobs...
to earn more money for our wedding,
but all the late night jobs were dangerous.
This is so frustrating.
If you have such talent, why would you get another job?
Spend a little less on the dogs.
How many hours do you spend on your dogs in a day?
- He's with them all the time. - About 17 hours.
- These days... - He's with them all the time.
I want to stay with them,
so I sleep at the salon.
How many hours do you spend on your girlfriend?
None.
- None? - Barely any.
- Why are you dating him? - 17 hours versus none.
We're always together, so that's the same thing.
You should be sincere to her, but you only care about the dogs.
- I agree. - Working together doesn't count.
If that's the case, then I guess I don't spend any time with her.
You're getting married, right?
Will you sleep with the dogs after you get married?
I want to, but if that's not possible...
Do you want to sleep with the dogs...
if she agrees?
Of course I do.
Actually, dogs are just like your kids.
- Yes. - I can understand.
You shouldn't pass them onto someone just because they're too much work.
I understand, but he should take better care of his girlfriend.
Do you guys go on dates on your days off?
Of course we go on dates with the dogs.
- No, without the dogs. - Not with the dogs.
- He's always with the dogs. - I mean just the two of you.
We went to a stream recently with the dogs.
I said, without the dogs.
She's asking you if you went without the dogs.
- Don't you remember any? - Without your dogs.
We went to a gamjatang restaurant across the street.
(We had lunch in the neighbourhood.)
This is...
I think it must feel like you're interrupting the relationship...
between your boyfriend and his dogs.
- Am I right? - I see.
- You feel like... - She's holding back tears.
- She feels like the third wheel. - That's right.
What do people around you say?
- What do they say? - They feel bad for me. My family...
says that the dogs come before me for my boyfriend.
My friends tell me that it'll be really rough on me...
and that I shouldn't marry him.
What if your girlfriend...
asks you to keep one dog and send away the others?
What if she says she won't marry you?
That's not possible.
Since I brought them in, I have to be responsible for them.
I think we should talk out this problem.
Are you saying that you don't care even if she doesn't marry you?
We have to talk about it,
but I don't think the answer is getting rid of the dogs.
- You'll never give up the dogs? - He won't.
- No. - You'd rather give up on her?
We should talk about it.
I don't think this is something you can talk it out.
- You already have your answer. - Yes.
- How can a talk change this? - He made up his mind.
Giving the dogs away...
- isn't the best idea, either. - I know it's hard.
How about this? You only feed the dogs premium food, right?
I know you have to save money.
I'm not telling you to give them bad food.
I can't do that.
If I change the food they've been eating,
it will affect their health.
There are specific amounts of proteins they need...
as well as carbohydrates.
- That's not what we mean. - We're saying...
it's like choosing between white and brown rice.
What about all the other dogs that eat regular dog foods?
Are their owners committing crimes?
- No. - What about the dogs...
in the suburbs that eat leftover food from home?
Is that wrong?
No, but each breed has dog foods that best fit them.
Just like how we use hair strengthening shampoo...
when we're losing hair...
If they don't make enough money, the people that are losing hair...
won't be buying special shampoo. They'll find other ways to treat it.
I'm doing it because I can afford it.
- You have a zero balance account. - No matter...
how long we talk, it won't work.
- He won't give up. - He's too positive.
Hyun Woo.
Hyun Woo thinks anything is possible.
- It could happen. - He gave in to everything.
- It could happen. - You have to change.
What do you think?
I think my personality will change starting today.
His ears turned red from anger.
He has red ears.
He loves his dogs a lot.
They have to sort this out.
This could be a big problem...
- for their marriage. - Yes.
You had to bring up the courage for this, right?
What do you think?
I have stage fright,
so I get really nervous.
When I first came out, I was shaking.
- Yes, I could tell. - You were nervous.
It was a big step for me to take to come on the show.
You were disappointed by what he said, right?
- It must hurt. - You must be upset.
He doesn't consider you as his everything.
I think I have to think it over.
- She was so hurt. - He needs to be considerate.
- He should know how she feels. - Yes.
What if someone who is competent and lives alone like me...
wants to raise the dogs and feed them even better?
If they want to adopt the dogs,
will you consider?
For your girlfriend?
That's still not possible.
What can you do for your girlfriend then?
What can you do for her?
I think I should find a late night job to...
earn enough money to find us a place to live.
After that, I want all of us to live together.
You heard everything today.
You even cried.
- What are you thinking? - Be brave.
Do you still want to marry him?
(I don't know anymore.)
Hyun Woo will go first. This is difficult.
I think it's a worry.
The dogs' health and their meals are important,
but you should be more considerate...
to the person closest to you.
I definitely think it's a worry.
She was brave in coming here.
I think the boyfriend needs to change a lot. It makes me furious.
Any woman would agree.
I'm furious, too.
I wish he would be more considerate...
and spend more time with his girlfriend.
That way, she would be more...
Raina's talking, but he's not listening.
Right. I'm sorry.
It's a worry.
This is a difficult problem.
Press the button if you think this is a worry.
(What does the audience think?)
A lot of people are voting.
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop.
I wonder how many votes they got.
I heard a lot of buttons being pressed.
Show us the result.
The current winner has 154 votes.
Could it be 156?
- Is it 166? - 60?
(Will they take their first win with 156 votes?)
Is it 156?
All right.
(Please smile at me and love me...)
(like you do with your dogs.)
"Change My Husband" takes their third win.
We will give the winner a 1,000 dollars gift certificate.
Until the day we are all worry-free,
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Bye.
("I Like That" by Sistar)
(Hello)